The real reason why Jennifer Lopez is trolled

The illustrious illustrious career of Jennifer Lopez in music and the film once again resumed his love life. Despite her successful successes, her platinum sales albums, her closed counters and a residence in Las Vegas, the Latina Megastar continues to be reprimanded on her romantic relationships. Front and Center today is his marriage to Ben Affleck, with various opinions and rumors swirling on social networks. But all the chatter points to one thing: the blatant misogyny of the Internet trolls and the media that blame Lopez for its failed relationships. From rumors of divorce to the cancellation of its tour, Lopez is launched while it is broken, and the public seems thirsty.

Today’s titles paint a unilateral table of Affleck sailing a tumultuous wedding with an overly ambitious work executioner who does not seem to have love. These biased accounts seem to be one of the reasons why Lopez released his film “This is me … Now” and his accompanying album of the same name, as well as the documentary that shows behind the scenes of all “,” The biggest love story has never told. “However, she does not seem to unravel the noise, lagging fishing and harassment granted to her.

On June 5, Lopez addressed the situation to the fans via her on the JLO newsletter, where she wrote: “It may seem that there is a lot of negativity in the world at the moment … but do not leave the voices of a few nuclei that there is so much love there. Thank you, thank you, thank you, I love you very much.”

Let’s be clear: Lopez is put through the spinner of his love life for two reasons. First of all, she is a woman – a powerful woman to that – and the second reason is that she is Latina. The culture of machismo is toxic and largely exists throughout Latin America and here in the United States. A 2022 study revealed higher levels of sexism in Latinos in the United States and concluded that strengthening the story of machismo in the media is a misleading reproduction of harmful stereotypes against Latins. In other words, when the Latin community jumps to denigrate J LO, it leaves the door wide open so that anyone who joins the train, forgetting that behind hatred is a woman, a mother and someone who has never denied how much she loves love.

When the gossip over his relationships prevails, this obscures the triumphant success of Lopez. Lopez managed to get the American dream. However, instead of always being celebrated for that, all the attention is focused on the things that turn into his love life. Public speech always seems to harass what it has done wrong. Maybe she has not paid enough attention to her man, or her career requirements have tense their relationship. Or maybe his world famous eclippiced the poor, poor Ben. Let’s be real: if Lopez was a man, Latin or not, would he still be the case?

It’s not just Lopez. Take the legendary actress and Egot Rita Moreno, a Puerto Rican actress who was married to Leonard Gordon for 45 years until her death in 2010. But before that, Moreno was examined for her love with Hollywood royalty like Marlon Brando and music superstars like Elvis Presley.

So what do we tell little girls, Latin and others, to be ambitious and successful? It is similar to the speech of America Ferrera in “Barbie”. A woman can succeed but not too successful. She can shine like the most brilliant star as long as she does not blind him or leaving him in the shadows. She can be strong but does not seem stronger than her man in public. She can love herself, but not too much, because she will appear as a Diva Ishh and egocentric behavior.

The biggest love story that Lopez has never told is how much she had to train through very public relationships and the ruptures that everyone seems to wait. After all, how could a woman choose her career rather than love, right?

Zayda Rivera is a contributor to Popsugar. She has been a professional writer for over 20 years. Z is a master teacher of certified Reiki, a yoga and zumba instructor, a mindfulness and meditation guide, a tarot reader and a spiritual mentor.