“My partner vaping Suring’s sex. Was my reaction unfair?

When most of us talk about “unforgettable” sex, we generally think it as a compliment.

But although the term applies to the obsessive case Redditor Express_resolve_7267, we want it in a more confused direction.

Take in R / AMIOVERREACTING,, The original poster (OP) asked the first question of the first of its kind: “AIO [Am I Overreacting]? He won in mid-sex.

We talked to an approved sexologist, a couples therapist and the author of Passionad.se, Sofie Roos, on how to manage the situation.

The author of the post, a 24 -year -old woman, says she met a man (34) on vacation with whom she continued to have “10/10” sex.

“We have struck instantly,” she said, but during a recent session, “he immediately stopped halfway through, and when I looked back to see what was going on … This man hit his lemon vape.”

As a vape herself, she says that she did not judge him for the habit in herself – but she says that she never felt this in the midst of “acting” before.

So, while she says that she “fantasized about the possibility of seeing where things could go between us”, she “in a spiral” on her actions.

“What does that mean?” Is it a sign that he is not really present? Inspected? Just too comfortable? Or do I make a mountain from a lemon mole?

“What is it said about how he sees me or value the experience?” She asked (she has since shared a modification that she accepted a stroke of her vape at the time, adding “unfortunately, the flavor was really very pleasant”).

Roos tells us that if the decision is “acceptable or not depends entirely on the dynamics of your relationship”.

It can be “fully correct” if you are both relaxed and fun about it, but if you feel “humiliated and you are injured, it was not done in a way that was acceptable,” she adds.

That said, the sexologist believes that most of us would find the move a “deactivation”.

“It is easy to feel objectified, deactivated and not seen” in this scenario, she writes, adding that it is “a humiliating experience to the opinion of most people”.

Surprisingly, however, the expert says that she suspects that it is far from being the only case of mid-coit vaping. “This is a situation that is not too likely to find you, and if that happens to you, it is very important to talk about experience with your partner,” she told HuffPost UK.

“Sit down and explain what it made you feel, why did it make you feel that and you don’t want it to happen again. Let your partner give their point of view on what happened, and try to speak with respect and understand each other.

“It can also help try to find a compromise that seems to you for both of you,” she advises.

“Maybe vaping during sex is a break, but leaving your vape partner in bed after” works better, it suggests as an example.