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Planning a wedding is both exciting and stressful. You will have to make many decisions throughout the process, from choosing the venue to the flowers you want in your bouquet. Another decision you will need to make is whether you want to maintain the centuries-old tradition of wearing a veil.
If you’re unsure whether you want a veil, it’s important to understand its origins and meaning, as well as some modern variations, so you can make a more informed decision.
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The origins of the wedding veil
Brides have worn veils for thousands of years. In ancient Rome, brides wore red or yellow veils to ward off evil spirits. In medieval Europe, they were worn to symbolize the chastity and purity of the veil. In Victorian England, white veils became a symbol of wealth, status and virginity.
Often the veil was also used to protect the bride’s face from envious or malicious looks.
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Modern trends
Veils may vary in size and color. Some are also adorned with jewelry, lace and more, to suit the bride’s personality.
Here are some things to consider:
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- Choose a veil that coordinates with the dress.
- Be practical: You may want to forgo the veil altogether if the wedding is outdoors and you’re afraid it will blow away.
- If you are a feminist and do not believe in being “betrayed”, you can refuse the veil.
Veil Alternatives
There are also alternatives to wearing a veil that may suit the mood/theme of your wedding:
Headbands or tiaras
Elegant and timeless, headbands or tiaras add sparkle and structure, perfect for brides who want a royal touch without a veil.
Floral crowns
Made with fresh or artificial flowers, floral crowns create a romantic, bohemian look, ideal for outdoor or garden weddings.
Hair Vines and Combs
These delicate accessories fit beautifully into hairstyles, offering subtle highlights with crystals, pearls or small flowers.
Other alternatives to veils include bobby pins, fascinators, birdcage veils, headbands or scarves, and wide-brimmed hats.
It’s up to you
Ultimately, planning a wedding means balancing tradition with personal expression. Among the many choices you will make, such as venue, flowers or attire, deciding whether or not to wear a veil is a deeply personal decision. By understanding the origins, symbolism and modern alternatives of the veil, you can confidently choose a look that feels meaningful and authentic to you on your special day.
